Veteran’s Appreciation Luncheon

Kays-Ponger & Uselton Family of Funeral Homes and Cremation Services held an appreciation luncheon today to honor those employees who have served our nation.  We currently have 17 veterans working in our funeral homes and memorial park.  Thank you for your service.


The 6 Black Boxes | A Military Widow’s View

The below article was originally posted on The American Widow Project is a non-profit organization dedicated to the new generation of those who have lost the heroes of yesterday, today and tomorrow, with an emphasis on healing through sharing stories, tears and laughter… Military Widow to Military Widow. Thank you to Hello Grief for sharing.


6 boxes are all that is left of my husband. One filled with his socks, another with his uniforms, and another with every card or photo he had received. Three more contain his books, sheets, and other military effects.

I remember when the boxes arrived, I sat there so anxious to see what was left of my baby. Opening each one I had no clue what I would see. Cautiously, I lifted the lid of the hard black containers.

There are the cards I wrote him, there are the movies he’d watch every night, there are the photos of me he had hanging next to his bed………there is the only thing left of my husband’s existence while in Iraq.

I remember opening up his laptop to find an snapshot of me I never knew he liked. There was the bear that had the personal message I had recorded telling him I can’t wait to see him come home and be together again. There were all the things I had sent, all the memories on film we had captured, all the literature he adored reading, now with no reader.

I forgot all that he had accumulated over his 8 months over there. Due to that fact, many items were so heartwarming but always with an aftertaste of anger.

I remember going through his clothes and immediately putting them to my nose……detergent. ‘I’ll try another shirt or maybe his socks!’ …….detergent. The fact that they had washed all of his clothing made me so infuriated! Let me have one last breath of his smell. The smell I was unable to be without for 8 months…..and now forever.

Some of Michael’s things I pulled out right away, others are still sitting in those looming boxes sitting in my garage. Every now in then I’ll open them to get a small inhale from his pillow that they DIDN’T wash, or go for a search for some hidden letter he may have written in the case he would die.

I never found the letter, I never got my husband to come home, and all I am left with are our memories, a few items of meaning and………6 black boxes.


Flag Retirement Program

“When it come to the time when I am old and faded, do not fly me in disrepair, rather retire me from my duties only to replace me with a new flag so that I may continue to symbolize our country.”

The flag of our nation should always be a strong, vivid symbol of our land and fly brightly in our minds.  Our flag is a symbol of our people, our freedom and our strength.

We have partnered with local Veteran’s groups to collect retired flags and cremate them in the most dignified manner, with a veteran.  This is done with honor as part of our commitment to the men and women who fought under the flag of our country.  YOU MAY DROP OFF RETIRED FLAGS AT ANY KAYS-PONGER & USELTON  OR LEMON BAY FUNERAL  HOME LOCATIONS OR GULF PINES MEMORIAL PARK.

If you would like to establish a Flag Retirement Program for your Veterans of Foreign Wars Post of American Legion Post, email us at or


Honor Flight 3rd Annual Car Show

One of our very own, David Obermier won “Show Favorite” with his 1980 Kawasaki LTD 1000!  Great job David!!


Donate Your Used Golf Clubs

American Legion Post 113 in Rotonda is collecting used golf clubs for the Amputee Veterans of America Support Team.  They will be used in a rehabilitation program.

Please donate to a great cause and drop off any golf clubs you are not using at any of our locations by February 15th.